Savage, for his part, calls bullshit on Ward’s book’s entire conceit. They identify as mostly straight and are often partnered with women, but like masturbating with other men (often while watching straight porn together), having sex with women while physically very close to another man, and/or watching men in porn in general. On Lyon’s Twitter account and blog, as well as in his podcast and interviews, he enthusiastically promotes this subculture of misunderstood, often shamed men. Maybe it’s just a woman blowing two dudes intermittently, or a closeup of double penetration - two dicks occupying both of a woman’s holes at the same time. Six years into running the site, he has nearly 200,000 followers, a large swath of whom are men curious about exploring a straightish identity.įYFF (the term friendly fire means men who ejaculate on each other in these adjacent sex acts) mostly features porn involving two men and one woman in engagements that sprinkle heterosexual porn with homoerotic overtones - that is, a lot of two-dicks, one–vagina action. It’s unclear how many men identify as straightish Lyon says he mostly uses the term to describe the porn he features, and prefers to identify himself as bisexual.